What to Expect While Fostering and Adopting

Allegations of Abuse and Neglect as a foster parent: how to prepare and what to do if this happens to you

I remember the one thing that worried me the most as a foster parent and that was the thought of being accused of abuse or neglect. Once it happened, it sent my mind spinning because I didn't know what to do. I felt overwhelmed with emotions and had no one to ask because my certifier suddenly couldn't discuss anything with me. 
Would I be found guilty of abuse? Would this go on my record? Would I be able to adopt? Do I need to hire an attorney?
I certainly didn't have anyone to help me navigate these complicated questions so I am thankful we get to dig into this today.
I will be sharing what happens when you have an allegation, how long the investigation takes and what does Founded, unfounded and unable to determine actually mean.
 
If you found this episode helpful, I would love for you to leave me a review and then join our Facebook community of like-minded mamas at: https://www.facebook.com/groups/fostercareandadoptionforchristianwomen
 

An unbelievably true story: He was diagnosed with non-verbal autism, labeled as feral and then he began to speak.

I got the call asking me to take him in as a foster care placement when he was 6. I had no idea the level of care that he would require but I was willing to try. The caseworker warned me that this would be a challenging case because of his level of abuse and neglect but I didn't know what I didn't know. She told me that he had non-verbal autism (ASD), was labeled as feral and was extremely traumatized. 
When I picked him up from a Mcdonalds parking lot, we never imagined the growth and transformation that would happen within a period of 6 years. 
This is our story. 
If you found this episode helpful, I would love for you to leave me a review on the app that you found me on. Then, I would love for you to join our Facebook community of likeminded mamas at: https://www.facebook.com/groups/fostercareandadoptionforchristianwomen
I am so thankful you found me and can't wait to hear about your journey.
Christine Marie

Overwhelmed with choosing the right foster care placements: Top tips on choosing the best age and number of placements for you as a foster parent.

It's the biggest first decision that every potential foster and adoptive parent makes, and it sets the trajectory for the beginning of your journey. It absolutely matters.
Have you ever wondered if there was a right number of kiddos you should take in as a first-time foster parent? Have you wondered what age range to choose, or should you be open to all ages? Is there a right number and if so, how do I know? 
Maybe you're already a foster parent and haven't had a child placed with you that is on the path towards adoption. Do you take in more children? How do you know when the right time is to add another child?
It can be an overwhelming decision when you aren't sure who to ask. If you're anything like I was, you're ready and eager to begin the journey of foster care and adoption.
 
If you have had or have these questions, this episode is perfect for you. We will talk about statistics with each age group, time requirements for first time foster parents and appointments you want to set up for your new foster child. 
 
If you found this episode helpful, I would love for you to leave me a review on the app that you found me on. Then, I would love for you to join our Facebook community of likeminded mamas at:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/fostercareandadoptionforchristianwomen
I am so thankful you found me and can't wait to hear about your journey.
Christine Marie
 

Getting really clear on your goals and vision as a foster parent with the goal of adoptive through foster care.

Do you have a vision of the perfect child you wanted to adopt? Are you a foster parent or in waiting to adopt a child? 
Have you imagined what your foster care journey would be like or maybe you're in the middle of it right now?
If any of this sounds like you, this episode is for you. 
I remember when I dreamt of bringing home our forever daughter. I imagined what she would look like, be like and who she would become. I thought my love would be enough to erase all of the hard things she had gone through. When it wasn't, it sent me into a tailspin. 
There's a better way through and I am so excited for you to begin to set a vision. No matter where you are in your journey, you can hit the pause button and create vision with God.
Are you ready to begin living intentionally and with purpose?
Go grab your cup of coffee and let's get started.
If you found this episode helpful, I would love for you to leave me a review and then join our Facebook community at: https://www.facebook.com/groups/fostercareandadoptionforchristianwomen
 

Understanding Child and Adolescent Needs and Strengths (CANS) Assessments

CANS stands for the Child and Adolescent Needs and Strengths assessment. Understanding CANS will help you to best serve the child or teen placed in your home as a foster placement. It will also help you know the purpose behind the assessment being done. I have carefully marked this episode as explicit because it discusses sensitive topics that may not be suitable for young ears to listen to. 
If you found this episode helpful, I would love for you to leave me a review and then join our Facebook community of like-minded mamas at: https://www.facebook.com/groups/fostercareandadoptionforchristianwomen
 
You can find more information on CANS at: The Child and Adolescent Needs and Strengths (CANS) – Praed Foundation

Let’s talk about Mental Health! Strategies for a Foster or Adoptive parent with Anxiety or ADHD

Todays episode is vulnerable. I’m sharing my own mental health diagnosis’ with you and giving you tools to help thrive as a foster parent. It’s filled with so many lessons that I learned in the 10 years we spent as foster parents. Learning these lessons was absolutely not easy and I pray that by sharing them with you, it will make your journey so much easier. If you found this episode helpful, I would love for you to leave me a review and then join our Facebook community of like minded mamas at: https://www.facebook.com/groups/fostercareandadoptionforchristianwomen   You can also find the Spiritual Gifts test I shared on todays episode at: https://spiritualgiftstest.com/ Blessings, Christine

Top 5 things no one told me but you need to know as a foster parent

Learning these lessons was absolutely not easy and I pray that by sharing them with you, it will make your journey so much easier. ❤️ If you found this episode helpful, I would love for you to leave me a review and then join our Facebook community of like minded mamas at: https://www.facebook.com/groups/fostercareandadoptionforchristianwomen 
Blessings, Christine

Reactive Attachment Disorder in Foster and Adopted children

Is there a cure for Reactive Attachment disorder in children who have been adopted or are in foster care? How common is this Diagnosis and what are some of the symptoms? On this episode, we're going to discuss some of the feelings of being a Mom to a child who has the dx. 
 
I can't wait to hear what you think!
 
You can connect with like minded mamas in our private facebook group at: https://www.facebook.com/groups/fostercareandadoptionforchristianwomen

Where it all began, how I became a foster parent and then an adoptive mom of 2.

Becoming a foster parent wasn't something I had planned and honestly, neither was becoming an adoptive parent but God absolutely had other plans. I can't wait to share my story with you and see if you see any of you in the details. 
After 10 years of fostering, 77 foster kiddos and our 2 daughters through adoption, I am so excited to begin to share our story.
To connect, please head over to my FB page: https://www.facebook.com/groups/fostercareandadoptionforchristianwomen

Podcast Trailer: What to expect while fostering and adopting

Are you struggling with constant overwhelm and have way more questions than answers while navigating the foster care system?
Are you feeling like you’re losing yourself while trying to help your foster child or heal your adopted children?
Do you feel completely ill-equipped with the needs of the kiddos in your home and fall asleep every night feeling like a failure?
What if you had the tools to navigate the complexities of the foster care system, your own personal coach as you begin the adoption journey and insights into helping your adoptive children heal? All while balancing life as a Mom, Wife and the driven overachiever that I know you already are.
Hi new friend, I’m Christine Marie.
Christian Mindset coach, Mom of 4- Adoptive Mom of 2 and previous foster parent of 77 children in 10 years.
I can’t wait to share with you everything I have learned as both a Foster and Adoptive Mom… and yes, still learning.